安全感是一种感觉、一种心理；是来自一方的表现所带给另一方的感觉；是一种让人可以放心、可以依靠、可以相信的言谈举止等方面表现带来的。近来，我住的地土开始和渐渐的失去了这个优势！和谐也开始动摇了，还可以维持多久呢？
奇怪，为什么人总是无法好好的相处？一个小小的课题，经过了无聊的政治玩弄，结果一波一波火灾事件发生！连学校也被牵连。我可以逃离这个课题吗？
朋友，如果你是想拥有下一代的，是时候规划你孩子的未来了！既然，我们在这儿也是第二等公民，为何我们不到发展和有俄文化的地土，让我们的下一代有个理想，成长的地方呢？人总是要冒险的，是你，还是你要把这个给你下一代？
而我呢？自己一个人，重要的事要拥有足够的基金在手，万一什么事件突发，我可以随地变动！这时候，不得不承认钱是万能的！
但是，重要的是让自己可以心静！心静就能解决很多不可能的事情！让我们一起学习！
7 Ways to Achieve Inner Peace and prosperity in the New Year - 2010
1. Give divine a chance, be grateful
This year, let the devotion flower to its fullest and give it a chance to work. Our love, faith & belief should be deep rooted, and then everything else moves on its own. The feeling that “I am blessed” can help you overcome any failure. Once you realisethat you are blessed, then all the complaints & grumbling disappear, all the insecurities disappear & you become grateful, contented and peaceful.
2. Take out time for yourself
Everyday you are engaged in only gathering information and you do not take out time for yourself to think and reflect. Then you feel dull & tired. A few quiet moments are sources for creativity. Silence heals and rejuvenates and gives you depth and stability. Some time during the day, sit for a few minutes, get into the cave of your heart, eyes closed, and kick the world away like a ball. Taking out some time for yourself improves the quality of your life.
3. Know life’s impermanence
See the impermanence in this life. Millions of years have passed & millions will come and pass. Nothing is permanent. What is your life? It is not even a drop in the ocean.
Just open your eyes & ask; who am I? How am I on this planet? What is my lifetime? Awareness dawns & you will stop worrying about little things. All
smallness will simply drop & you will be able to live every moment of your
life. If you review the context of your life, the quality of your life improves.
4. Do random acts of kindness
Make a commitment to make this world a better place to live. Do some acts of kindness without expecting anything in return. Service alone can bring contentment in life. It creates a sense of belongingness. When you bring some relief to someone throughselfless service, good vibrations come to you. When you show kindness, your true nature which is love & peace
comes to play.
5. Make your smile cheaper
Every day, every morning, look at the mirror and give a good smile to yourself. Don't let your smile be snatched away by anybody! Usually, you give your anger freely and smile rarely as though a smile is costly. Make your smile cheaper and anger expensive! When you smile all the muscles in your face get relaxed. The nerves in your brain get relaxed and you become peaceful within. It gives you the confidence, courage & energy to move on in life.
6. Make meditation a part of life
When we have higher goals in life it leads to stress & restlessness which can only be released through a few minutes of meditation & introspection. Meditation gives you deep rest. Deeper you are able to rest, dynamic you will be in activity. What is meditation?
Mind without agitation is meditation.
Mind in the present moment is meditation.
Mind that has no hesitation, no anticipation is meditation.
Mind that comes back home to the source which is peace & joy is meditation.
7. Be a Student always
Know that you are a student forever. Do not underestimate anybody. Knowledge may come to you from any corner. Each occasion teaches you & each person teaches you. The world is your teacher. When you are always looking to learn, you will stop underestimating others. Humility will dawn in your life.
让我们一起加油！让我们拥有美好的2010！！
